When you love someone for whom you have to change and sacrifice many things in yourself and your life in order to meet their expectations... when you eventually learn to trust and even rely on that person, and you decide to take the risk of probably being disappointed and let down... when you expose every part of you and you share every piece of each dream that you hold dear... you are quite possibly digging your own grave. And is it really worth the trouble?
Most people are selfish, heartless, self-centered, insecure about themselves... most people will want to change you only to stop loving you once you've become what they intended. They will disrespect you, insult you and even hurt you, both spiritually and physically, in order to feel good about themselves. They will only care about their own needs, neglecting yours and expecting you to always be there without asking anything in return.
In short, most people haven't got the faintest idea of what loving someone actually means and involves. They ignore (and couldn't care less about) the fact that you are laying your heart into their hands for them to look after with the same dedication with which you'll be looking after what you believe to be their heart but is nothing but a cold stone.
And it's all a game, really... but they just never learn the rules. Do not play unless you know, understand and follow at least some of the rules of the game!
Do not touch if you are not going to be careful.
Do not see if you are not intending to look.
Do not ask if you are not willing to reply.
Do not create something you are not going to be fully responsible for.
But above all, do not enter the game if you are not willing to play for you might come across one player who's not only intending to play but who is also needing to win.
These are all just random thoughts on things I see people around me are currently experiencing. Nothing to be taken personally.
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